Friday, April 16, 2010

Day 1 of Bonding Period

Today was our first official day of the bonding period. Per Kazakhstan law, we have to visit him everyday for 14 days before we can request a court date to petition to adopt him. On our way home last night we stopped at the market to pick up some toys. We found an airplane and some cars that we brought to him today. He was happy to see us today and LOVED the airplane! We spent about an hour and a half playing with the toys and drawing pictures. This orphanage doesn’t have a doctor on-site like the Baby House, so we will probably meet with the doctor early next week. The Assistant Director at the Kids Village hasn’t done any foreign adoptions from this orphanage before, so we are learning the process and ins/outs just like they are. The good news about this is that we are able to visit him 7 days a week! He is 4 now and will be 5 in July. He speaks Russian & Kazakh but not English – so we have some major communication barriers! We know that we will be able to communicate with him in no time though! We at least know the important Russian words, like airplane and cars!!!




After our visit today our translator, Tanya, took us to the shopping mall and bazaar to pick up some more toys for him and we were able to find some souvenirs and traditional items to take home for him as well!



For many years, Dustin and I have imagined having girls at home – but ever since we met this little boy, nothing seems to make more sense than having him in our lives! The kid’s room that we have ready at home is all decked out for a little girl, so we will have to make some major changes to that when we come home between our trips! Looking forward to that though, bring on the planes, cars and trucks!!

Thank you so much for all of the prayers, thoughts and positive thinking!!! We are so happy that we have finally met our little guy and will have quite the story to tell him about our journey to him someday!!

Love,

The Stone’s

In front of Kids Village
 

20 Comments:

At April 16, 2010 at 7:50 AM , Blogger Allison said...

So happy for you :) Congratulations to you all.

 
At April 16, 2010 at 8:01 AM , Blogger Jennifer said...

So happy for you guys!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 8:14 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

SO happy right now. I am drinking my morning coffee and tearing up a bit. CONGRATULATIONS!!!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 8:52 AM , Blogger The Gobble's (Lanetta) said...

wow... this is awesome!! so thrilled for you!! :)

 
At April 16, 2010 at 9:26 AM , Blogger Molly said...

Such good news!!!! Congratulations guys! Cheers to a wonderful and blessed bonding period for you!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 10:52 AM , Blogger Yael said...

Delighted to learn you finally found your child!!! Perseverance pays off...Enjoy the moment and keep us posted!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 11:01 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

Wonderful news! Many congratulations and enjoy every single moment of bonding with your special little guy.

 
At April 16, 2010 at 11:24 AM , Blogger Jacqueline said...

We came home with an almost 4 yr old boy that only spoke Kazakh last year. We communicated in so many other ways. Congratulations! I love to see those kiddos finding homes.

 
At April 16, 2010 at 11:44 AM , Blogger Ann said...

How wonderful! I'm so happy for you!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 12:28 PM , Blogger Chris and Heather said...

Congratulations! He sounds wonderful. Can't wait to hear more.

 
At April 16, 2010 at 12:37 PM , Blogger Kari said...

Dustin and Cortney! We could not be happier for you three!!! YAY YAY YAY! You have been through so much and now you know why! It was all to lead you to this child..your child. We are thrilled!
-Kari, James, and Ava

 
At April 16, 2010 at 12:42 PM , Anonymous Janet said...

Congratulations, he sounds like he is going to be a lot of fun. I adopted a 4 yr old last year, she is now fluent in english. Learn as much Kazak/Russian as you can, it will really help in those first 3 months home. Our 4 yr old used to say/shout 'zoovachka' a lot to us.....we thought she was swearing. We used our Russian friends to translate, it means 'GUM'. Really happy for you...and really happy for the boy!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 12:59 PM , Blogger Becki Stone said...

YAY! I'm so happy to hear this. Enjoy bonding!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 1:16 PM , Blogger D and A said...

Obviously I don't know you guys, but I was getting so worried...I'm so happy to see this post. Congratulations!

 
At April 16, 2010 at 2:09 PM , Blogger Baby Kaz Moore said...

I loved reading your posts.

May I suggest that you read Toddler Adoption: The Weaver's Craft. It's an excellent book about the transitions you and he will undergo.

Cheers to you from Austin.

 
At April 16, 2010 at 3:44 PM , Blogger Unknown said...

Absolutely fantastic!!!

God's speed as you three begin bonding to one another.

Dave and Jaclyn

 
At April 16, 2010 at 7:27 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your blog moved us to tears, remembering our first day of bonding after having gone through so much. We are very happy for you, you can feel your joy through your writing.
Jen, Bert & Russie

 
At April 17, 2010 at 9:04 AM , Blogger Cat said...

So happy for you! And thank you for sharing your experiences through your blog.

 
At April 17, 2010 at 2:38 PM , Blogger Julie said...

Congratulations! I am so gtlad you found your son.

http://www.scribd.com/doc/19795132/Entire-Kazakh-Language-Manual

I use this site when I got home with my 2 year olds who spoke kazakh. Fortunately, they learned to understand english very quickly as my kazkh was horrible.
Julie

 
At April 17, 2010 at 8:30 PM , Blogger The Robeys said...

So happy things seem to be working out. We met our little boy exactly one year ago today. He was almost 3 1/2 at the time. We had expected to bring home a younger child but are happy things worked out the way they did. He spoke a mix of Russian and Kazakh. The transition to English has been very quick. The first couple of months were challenging but we found our ways to communicate. We have found the following two books to be quite helpful with an older child.

Parenting Your Internationally Adopted Child: From Your First Hours Together Through the Teen Years by Patty Cogen

Our son didn't have and doesn't have severe behavior problems but this book has still been helpful.

Beyond Consequences, Logic, and Control: A Love-Based Approach to Helping Attachment-Challenged Children With Severe Behaviors
Heather T. Forbes

 

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